What should you do if Christian people.....?

What should you do if Christian people tell you what you have to do or what you have to avoid to go to church or to become a Christian? What if they tell you something that makes you feel that you cannot manage it? What if they tell you to keep all the commandments?

If they tell you that you should follow the ten commandments, you should let them know that you are not a Jew. That is, of course, if you really are not a Jew. You can tell them that the commandments were given to the Jews and not to other people.

If they tell you things that make you feel that they condemn you, you should tell them that God has given them a different message or word to tell people  -  not a word of condemnation. No, rather on the contrary. God has given all Christians the word of reconciliation. The Bible tells in 2nd Corinthians chapter 5, verse 19, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not holding people's sins and mistakes against them, and that He has committed to the Christians the word of reconciliation.